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Top Three Ways to Handle Haters Without Losing Your Dignity

Will you agree with me that every now and then, you'll discover that a lot of haters surround you in a group where you belong? Or you supposed to belong?

You'll probably nodding your head right now.

I've experienced a lot of people who are always trying to get ahead of others by hurting their fellows. They don't want your promotion. They're threatened of your success, even if it's just a small one. They're not contented of what they have and tend to feel envious of you. They will say side comments in front of you that they thought you won't hear it. But you did.

Since haters gonna hate, all you really need is to be prepared for their next attack. At least now, you're fully aware that they're trying to be nice to you but actually fail in hiding their facial expressions. Their eyes say it all. Right?


Here are the top three ways to handle haters without losing your dignity. Don't get your hands dirty because of these people. They're not worth your time.

1. Don't react directly to any attack.

Be subtle. Wait for that perfect moment to give a deafening reply that will make your opponent so ashamed to even say a word or raise an eyebrow.

2. Delay your anger. 

You can better think of strategies to defeat your opponents if you have plenty of time to find the right move. It will also help you look dignified, something that your enemy will be afraid of.

3. Be humble.

You're going to use this trick wisely, though. Sometimes people will trample on your rights because you're too lenient on them.

I've given you simple ways to stay dignified in front of pretentious, jealous and sarcastic individuals. Make sure to learn from your experiences and be wise in dealing with other people. Take care!

How to Maintain Your Upwork Profile in 2018

I've started working through Upwork since 2012 and a lot of things changed since then. I just joined the platform to prepare for freelancing in the future [which is right now] and it really helped me to be patient about anything freelance. Here are a few things that you should remember in maintaining your Upwork profile this 2018.

1. Always find work and get paid to avoid your profile to become private that will not allow potential employers to find you via search.

This is basically a new rule for me and I never heard anyone talking about this one. I just discovered this when my profile was turned to private by Upwork after not having income for more than three weeks, I think, and it was really a huge change on my freelancing activity. So now I learned to have at least 2-3 clients every week.


2. Check the background of the employer first before starting to sending an application letter or submitting a proposal. You can do so by checking the reviews about the potential client and read all the comments. In that way, you'll have an idea on what type of client you'll be dealing with in the future.

3. Maybe, you can start applying work of clients that have already invested a lot at Upwork. In that way, you can avoid those who can't pay or those who have no plans of paying you in the first place.

4. Be mindful of your reviews. I usually provide positive reviews for clients who really gave me a smooth, meaningful and profitable working experience. They usually provide remarkable rating in return.


In closing, make sure to develop a good working relationship with your clients. Obviously, your rating or job success will go down if some clients will give you low rating.

Happy freelancing! 💓

Insightful Points that a Close Friend Told Me about Online Dating and Relationships

The meaning of love is not confined to a specific definition. In every corner of the world, there's a way to express this feeling. Even if you're from a foreign country, you can share your love and devotion to another person. In the same way, your object of affection can easily share his or her feelings with you. Thanks to the existence of the Internet. Indeed, love makes the world go round.

My close friend, Jean, who lives in the neighborhood told me beautiful things about her marriage to a foreigner. It also includes the things she has to do patiently in order to find the love of her life. With that, it's obvious that she's one of those who believe in finding true love through a dating site, something that other people don't want to do. At present, she's happily married to an American businessman that she met online in 2010.


We often heard about people who chose to marry someone from a different country with different culture and background. For Jean, this is a happy choice for her. Here are the insightful things that she mentioned about finding true love through an online dating site nowadays.

Try to Be Friendly Online

Not all people you meet online are bad. You should give them a chance. By being friends with a lot of people through the Internet, you'll get a chance to know them better. "Don't limit yourself with people from within the country," says Jean. She believed that there are loving, kind and responsible foreigners who are seeking for true love. The reason you'll need to get to know a lot of people is to avoid meeting bad guys online.

Give Yourself Enough Time

"There's no need to hurry," warns Jean. She has friends who followed her own way of finding love and some of them aren't successful for the reason of not taking time wisely. If you think someone is not worth your attention, take time to find another. There will always be opportunities to find the right person. 

Read Success Stories Shared by Others

Obviously, you'll need inspiration in what you chose to do through the Internet. In order to get enlightened, read true stories of other women who found true love online. Personally, I have a lot of friends who are already living happily in other countries with their husbands. It's a sign that there's nothing wrong to give online dating a chance.

The traditional way of dating is still very interesting these days. However, it's also worth your time and attention to meet people from different countries as prospects for a happy relationship. You just have to choose the best one that will love you with all his or her heart.

Lastly, Jean told me that she has to chat with a lot of friends to find the perfect one. After all, dating is one way to be familiar with people and get to know them. She's really sure that the one she married five years ago is the right one for her. Until now, they're still happily married.

July 2018 Favorite Products

There are many products that I love this month of July. Before this month in 2018 ends, I shared my favorite picks on my YouTube Channel two days ago.



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1. Ever Belina Matic Lipstick

This lipstick is on sale so I bought one for myself. It's interesting to note that I'm starting to like nude shades, especially when it's matte and pretty.

2. Convertible Gingham Jacket

The jacket is owned by my husband, he really loves it. But for this video and for other opportunities to wear this one, I've borrowed the item. It's blue and gingham so I can wear this from day to night.

3. Ice Watch

My friend, Aisie, gave this watch to me. She also gave one to our friend - so it's one for me and for Iris. The color is pink, sort of Lavender, really, and I really love it.

4. Hairfix Keratin Straight Leave On Spray

I usually use this product when I'm in a hurry because there's no need to rinse. It's easy to use and I can even bring it when I travel. This one can be bought at Watson's and it's really helpful to keep my hair straight and shiny every time I use it.

5. Avon True Color, SuperExtend Lengthening Mascara

This is the mascara that I use since last week. It's really nice, waterproof, so I can use this without smudging my makeup.

Basically, this is my first video about favorite products that I really worked hard for. This is also one way of showing gratitude to those who supported by YouTube Channel.

Thank you for dropping by. Take care! 💓